Peer Relationship Part - 3 : Solutions

There is an answer to every question likewise there is a solution to every problem. Peer problem can cause havoc in social life and can result in deflection in numerous fields but it can be tackled with the help of parents, teachers and peers. Some of the Helping strategies as suggested by various studies are –

Social Skills training

Students whose behavior tends to social rejection often need to learn new interpersonal skills. These skills does not require special curriculum or training but can be developed through constant interaction with parents, teacher and even peers. These skills include learning importance of team effort, nurturing leadership qualities and mutual contribution.

Intervention for Related Problems-

Peer problems generally tend to create serious academic problems and results in overall disturbance in the academic journey of a student. These students need intensive academic intervention so as to minimize potential adverse effects on the student’s academic and peer relation. Positive intervention from parents can act as effective support system for a student.

Non Threatening Social Experience-

Large groups can be threatening to students who lack self confidence. Shy students may therefore benefit from opportunities to interact in small groups. Parents can help by inviting class mates and friends over for special activities. Students can be encouraged to develop outside interest like music or art which provides natural basis of interaction with other students and provides a boost to the self confidence to the student.

Co-operative Classroom Projects-

Classroom activities can foster peer acceptance of students who are trying to improve their social reputation. Role played by school and teachers are also as crucial as the roles played by the parents as the teacher is the role model for the student. Classroom projects help the student to interact in large groups and also provide a platform for them to get acquainted with the peers.

Beyond intervention for specific peer problem, there are several general strategies that may help a student to maintain a healthy outlook on their own social lives. Peer relationships are important contributors to the quality of both student’s current lives and future development. Parents have to be more conscious towards their approach towards the social development of the children. Showing respect for children social needs, getting contented with friends and creating social option without any pressure and high expectation can really show positive result in the social outlook of a student.

We cannot ignore the impact of serious problem which co relates with the academic capability of a student. A student requires intervention and support in academic as well as social aspect of life. We can achieve a better prospect out of a student performance by providing the desired support system. Parents and Teachers are the important pillars in the life of a student and these aspects can also create difference in Students life.